The TF journey is all about learning how to balance energies to try to enjoy ebb and flows of the ride instead of having the roller coaster go out of control with extreme ups and downs. One of the most important things that I have learned so far is that it is crucial for me to put the focus on myself, and not my twin. The more I focus on what he is or isn’t doing, the more the ride of the journey becomes volatile at times. Towards the beginning of my journey, I was definitely stuck in loops of overreacting, which did not help either one of us. I am in a better place now, and appreciate the journey for what it is. I trust that the work that I am doing, he is also doing in his own way, regardless if he is aware of it or not. Thank you for the article. I enjoyed it! 😊